When you are married, you start putting your own interests aside and consider what is best for both you and your spouse. Every time you make a decision, you must consider what is best for you, your spouse and any children you may have. Estate planning greatly impacts your family’s future and is one of the most important decisions you make together as a couple. Thoughtful estate planning is especially important for the well being of blended families –those comprised of a step-parent and step- or half-siblings.
For example, one scenario that typically occurs in a blended family upon the death of one spouse is that their significant other, their children, and step-children fight over the decedent’s estate. In order to avoid such a scenario, and other variations on that theme, we recommend you take careful measures in planning your estate and your spouse’s.
As touched upon in a Forbes article earlier this year, one initial issue couples must confront is figuring out whether they should get their own attorneys for estate planning purposes. Most couples consider it safe to share everything, including legal representation. However, as efficient joint representation may be –in terms of cost, time saving and mutual trust- it can also make things unpleasant for a couple in some cases, especially if husband and wife have underlying trouble (e.g., communication problems).